Friday, January 6, 2017

do not be obsessed with beauty !....

I think that often way too many people are obsessed with beauty and they tend to bully others about their looks or maybe even bully themselves about their own looks....this all needs to end!

It is no way to live your life when we have so many people fussing, obsessing, and almost killing themselves with starvation to look like some idiot guy or gal in a fake magazine!....That's all airbrush and way too much surgery....

I don't know why so many people are obsessed with being beautiful and looking so so??! I think it is a lot of times the stupid news media and stupid magazines that tell us all we are not beautiful or good enough...

AND let's not forget all those snobby high society clowns who look their noses down on EVERYONE and harass, bully, make fun of everyone that they "think" isn't good enough looking or rich enough!....*eyeroll* those snobs are so annoying and nobody likes them, maybe they have figured that out yet?, maybe not yet?....they are the crowds that start a lot of this Beauty obsession everywhere....who gives a damn?!!...I don't.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder they say, I find beauty in all good people, who are kind hearted, sweet, and true individuals...I NEVER care about what someone looks like on the exterior...I look at how kind and good of a person they are---that is Beautiful!

Looks do not matter in a person or whatever can have looks, I never value the looks of someone...I value their kindness and goodness!.....

You know I have heard people for way too many years say: "Oh, this girl here or that boy here, oh, they are ugly and they need surgery, this isn't perfect enough here on them, and they need this done to their face!" and that is just how sad that is with people, everything seems to be for a long time ALL about staying the perfect weight size -0 and starving yourself, obsessing over everything someone else "thinks" is not perfect enough about you!...

I don't know why anyone would care what someone else thinks about their looks or being beautiful....Women & girls can be the WORST at belittling and talking trash about someone's looks...THIS needs to end women & girls!!! it's all about jealousy..ignore them!..stupidity with them!

Beauty is something that we need to NOT obsess over!...This needs to end! We are all individuals, created uniquely, differently, all kinds of nationalities, none exact, none perfect!....no  EXACT same skin color, no EXACT same hair type, weight...NOT one is better than another, and NOT one needs to be made fun of or criticized!

You are beautiful the way you are when you are a good/kind person!

Make-up is something that you don't need to be beautiful, I like to look at make-up as ART!.....lol...it is fun to paint your face with make-ups and wear the false nails, color your hair, and even sometimes I enjoy wearing the false eyelashes when attending important events or meeting good people.....that is all an Art to me, and it is nice to work on make-up for my face..BUT only for me...I'm not applying make-up for someone else...just for me, no matter where I go, just for me!....it is fun often, but I don't wear it all the time, it can be a hassle when in a hurry and very consumed with life!!!

Women need to know that you don't have to wear make-up to be beautiful! and you don't have to be a perfect size or wear designer clothing to be beautiful...we need to end this obsession!

Many times people are born with body deformities, health issues, and other things they cannot help, maybe born without limbs, eyes, or other body issues, maybe have accidents...We should always know they are beautiful and NEVER think otherwise, never stare at them or talk about their looks, looks do not matter!...IF you have those problems just know you are BEAUTIFUL anyway! 💋

And when choosing a mate, boyfriend or girlfriend...NEVER choose someone based simply on their looks!!! Ginormous mistake! Choose someone by how they make you feel about yourself, how kind hearted they are, and how much of a good person they are! Looks of a person should NEVER count when it is about love!

Fat, thin, short, tall, medium, this or that, ONLY choose a mate or date by how kind of a person they are and to remember by the way they make you feel about yourself...that is always a must! Exterior looks do not matter for this in life!....People who make you feel comfortable, feel safe with, make you laugh, feel good about yourself in general these people are always better for you when choosing a mate...

Looks of things like for the home, you can always have fun with that one, and decorate, and appreciate the beauty of items or nature....that's ok to appreciate....

Weight seems to be one topic that men & women, or children--everyone! ALL are made fun of, or ridiculed harassed over weight and that NEEDS to STOP...Just more cruel snobby obsession and I hate to see anyone starve and be mentally upset over their weight and have eating disorders because of a snobby loser running their mouth off at them...how sad that is! who cares what those snobs think!...annoying. enough of them! Go have a meal! and shut your mouth! I say!....nobody gives a damn...

I think when people enjoy meals and they preparing meals and actually ingesting food that is wonderful! and I think that when everyone has weight on them that is Beautiful! I know that many people are naturally thin and small and that is just fine!...I just wish to see the obsession with weight end also!....I like it when men have some weight on them!...they look nice!....I don't like to see the Man-o-Rexic look going on!....oh it is upsetting to see men do this to themselves just like the women have!!!

Just remember you are BEAUTIFUL when you have a good, kind heart...that is beauty!

julie


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