using others......

Often in life, others will befriend you only for what they can use you for.......sadly this is hurtful, upsetting to know that you are being used only for what others can gain / attain from being your " friend " or acquaintance, or sometimes even marry you only for what they can gain from being your spouse.....conniving, false ! 

Name dropping on the sly, saying " I know him, her, them ! " nearby those of importance they are hoping to help them step up in the world or gain / attain by name dropping and to gain entryway into those lives for only their interests.......using names of those of goodness just to make them look good, yeah we have heard it all !

These users, will connive, name drop, lie, befriend, or even marry the person they wish to use for money, attention, find work occupations, step up in life, make them look better to those they wish to be in social circles with, or just to use them to get by in life, or borrow money, wish them to give them ginormous money donations, seen it all in my life the fakes and snobs, gathering nearby to use those they make fun of, then nicely nice to their faces only for what they can gain from them ! 

Just how most are these days, be watchful for those fakey fake users in life, it is very annoying, hurtful, often dangerous !

Using another is very belittling, hurts terribly, and is dangerous minded, those obsessed with others often use others to plant interior their lives to hurt them for others also........we have seen + heard about all this for years haven't we !

Be very cautious and watchful about just who is allowed into your heart, your life, your well being depends on this !.......Often our heart says one thing is ok, when we know that is definitely fake + user danger zone ! 

Guard your heart, your loved ones be watchful over them, for these users, using them for anything.......money, sex, social status.......they can use you for anything, this is very dangerous !

Those using others, snobby, fakey fake can often deceive those not feeling well, those depressed, and deceive them into thinking they are in love with them, they need them, they need help from them, money given or purchases given to them, they can ALSO deceive them into criminal mischief, involve them into danger, drugs, trafficking, kidnap them also !

Anybody who is false to another and uses them for their gain / attain, is a crooked sorry bitch ! That is just how some people are.......unfortunately !

Anyone in a bad situation as this ? Get out, keep away from these evil idiots, run ! They are ONLY using you, DO NOT love you, DO NOT need anything from you but money or whatever social status they wish to achieve.....

Be smart / wise, Watch out for theses others using you, look at the situation from all sides, how do you feel about the way they are toward you ? Are they only using you ?

Guard your heart.

Only allow those of goodness, good ways, good ideas, those who are kind into your life.

Being used + deceived hurts damn it !

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J.