Human beings are not meant to be alone, I often think of how many people spend their days alone a lot and how lonely and depressed that can make you....
People should always try to be social and being social in good ways is always the right thing to do!
Many people have no family, or no friends sometimes because of upsets, illnesses, and whatever has happened they are alone...That is one of the saddest things I think is to be totally alone without anyone to talk to, talk to about how you are feeling, or to go and be social with at town with, shopping, recreational activities, road trips, celebrations...to laugh with.
Everybody needs to have someone that you can just look at one another and start laughing about something, because you already know what is so funny!....haha!...those are some of the best moments in life, so cherish those friends and family that you can just laugh all the time with!....they are wonderful! Having a good friend or family member that is trustworthy, reliable, who loves and cares about you is something we all need to find, and we need to be that kind of friend and family member who is caring, trustworthy, reliable, loving, and cares about everyone.....
when you know that someone is alone/nobody in their life, you should always reach out and be there for them!....I always say that Nobody needs to be alone!..I like having many friends and family members that love and care about me near me most all the time!...
I think you should invite people to be apart of your life when you know they are good people and you can trust them!....Inviting them over for celebrations, holidays, church services, and events that you may be going to participate in that are good, nice, and fun... Call them up! and say: "Get over here and let's go to this or that and get out of the house!" and laugh....and that can always keep loneliness and depression away!...nobody should be left all alone to be depressed!...
if you are depressed or feeling all alone, call them up and ask them if they wish to go out and go to town and laugh and have fun with you...even if it is just to go to town and purchase a Slush Puppy, slushy, or snow cone..call them up and drive to town and listen to the radio and laugh, attend a baseball/basketball/football game locally, invite them to go skating or bowling,...those can be some of the best times, simple but a lot of fun...
when you have those people in your life who are good friends and are alone, invite them to be apart of your family and have them over for all the celebrations, holidays, those events I mentioned....When I think about friends, I think about them all like family, because real true friends care about one another and when one is having a difficult time in life, you always show support for them and take the time to be there for them, listen to them, and invite them to be apart of your celebrations, go shopping for groceries or whatever, go enjoy a band, or enjoy dinner together, and invite them to attend church services with you...I always have liked to invite others to go with me to places when they are alone...and we just go laugh, have dinner, and have fun!
so many people are alone and battling terrible drug addictions, going to rehabs, battling diseases, depression, mental health issues and we should show support for them in all their upsets, try to cheer them up and let them know you are there for them and support them in becoming much better..everyone needs to know someone cares about them and loves them!
socializing with others is always a good thing to be doing, we all need to try and be there for one another and show we care as human beings that is what we need to do!..Don't let others be abandoned and alone, get out there and invite them to go have fun at all these things I have mentioned.....
Be supportive and encouraging to those facing terrible addictions, mental health issues, diseases, depressions and let them know you care! gift them a nice cheerful balloon, a sticker set/gift, a flower, and a card for encouragement and to show you care! whichever you can afford and you choose to gift them to show you care....
we should all try to be much more caring, friendly, kinder, wiser, more respectful, supportive, and learn to laugh more, I love to laugh and laughter always makes me feel better when I have a case of the sads!...lol..
Remember Birthdays, and special events in others lives...
we should be more social but in good ways, never nasty or bad socializing, NEVER let others be left all alone and depressed, just knowing that you have someone to be there for you, care about you, love you, and you'll always have somewhere to spend the previous lonely holidays/events with others and you know you are welcome to spend those days with them, that gives you hope always....and helps with depression....
just invite others, and be there for them always. no one should ever be left abandoned and alone....your life can be so much better when it has many good people there to be apart of it, you will know you have many people you can call and talk to about things, and talk to about how you feel....laugh with about things, and it is just so much better to have a life with many people there to be family with...and share life with.
julie
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