Many times in life, people can have set backs, upsets, accidents, have mental and physical issues, be hurt, have addictions, be depressed severely, be handicap, or ill...
Everyone needs someone to care for them sometime in their life, when they cannot help themselves, just like the elderly we should always be there to take very good care of our loved ones, friends/family and show support for them when they are going through tough/difficult times, show them that you love them by being there for them ALWAYS.
Often it takes a village to care for someone!..Many people are needed to help someone overcome obstacles in life and to help them get through mental/physical trauma....We need to always be thankful and tell the Doctors, therapists, nurses and medical staff Thank You! For helping our loved ones, when they have worked to help someone battle through their problems...
NEVER giving up on hope for better days is best! Working tirelessly to help our loved ones get through sad/bad days and always being there for them in these difficult days is what we should all be there for!....It can be upsetting and depressing to watch them go through cancer, addictions, treatment, mental/physical traumas and when the days look bad ahead of them, you often have so much stress and worry, BUT you stay by their side and always love, care, and show support for them!....That is how human beings should all be! Caring, loving, nurturing, and supportive....
Just having someone there or many others there to care for you, love you and support you, is always good and brings hope throughout the dark, sad depressing times...Being there to hold someone's hand and talk/chat with them when they are scared and upset as they battle through the bad days of whatever their ailment or trauma may be is always needed to bring comfort to them...NEVER let a loved go through something terrible/frightening alone!!! ALWAYS be there for them and go through it with them...
Showing support through cancer treatments, and always being there to hold their hand before and after a surgery or after a upset or loss is needed!..It may upset you to watch your loved ones go through this, so take others with you to support you also emotionally....Just keep praying.....
So many people are terribly hurt sometimes by loved ones and this can lead to drinking binges and addictions to many illicit drugs or prescription pill abuse and being hurt terribly by loved ones can trigger this problem!....Going through a mental health program and an addiction program are always needed and we should always encourage our loved ones friends/family to keep attending these programs to battle through depressions and addictions...They need to kick all nasty drug addictions to the curb and go on with life with their loved ones who care/love them!..
There are so many better things to life than nasty drugs!!!...Be supportive and be harsh with them about kicking their drug addictions to the curb and out of their lives and your life!!!...We don't want to ever lose our loved ones to addiction and bad habits.....be supportive and encouraging to addicts to get with the program, go to rehab and mental health professionals, be clean and sober recovery!
Holding someone's hand, greeting them cheerfully when you see them as they battle through the bad days, are always good!..I always try to be upbeat and cheerful to others and make them laugh...I like to see people laugh and smile even in the darkest days!..That's how we get through those bad/sad/mad days!..They may not want to hear someone cheerful at the moment and they may be unfriendly, but that is ok...I just keep on bringing the cheer and laughter......even if I am the only one laughing..
so many people have severe mental issues I know and some may not ever want to meet or see someone cheerful, but that's ok....they have made fun of me before for being upbeat and cheerful, talked mean about me behind my back or to my face, I knew the whole time and just laughed at how stupid they all were and left, because I was nice to them, they hated me, but that's ALL jealousy and severely mentally ill people.....
oh well!....I just keep on laughing and being cheerful...I guess now I laugh at them, but they caused it!.....that's how I am..you have to work at being happy always.....sure I cry and have bad days but I don't give up....I have unfortunately met way too many people in my life who don't like cheerfulness or for someone to be nice to them...weirdos....lol...their loss....I will never be their friend/family again or worry about them, I don't care what anybody thinks about me, I never have!...lol....so don't waste your time on those people who hate you!...haha....go on and laugh about them!
anyways,
Greeting cards, flowers, Balloons send them! Offer a hug to loved ones when they battle through those bad days, and tell them that you care about them and love them!....Well wishes, condolences, congratulations for achieving goodness in fighting difficult days are always needed....
always be there, show support, care and love your loved ones as they battle through the darkest days.
j.
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