I think a person has to work at being happy...happiness is not just something that you fall into I think you have to figure out who and what makes you happy in your life....Whenever I get down with a case of the "sads" or get the blues....I know things will pass and I rely on myself and God to keep myself Up and happy....
You have to work on your mind and think happy thoughts and look to the future and know it will all be ok...things pass when you think they won't get better...they will!!!...sometimes things get you down and work on your mind and well, that's called life....I've had a lot of let-downs and disappointments in my life...BUT I have always pulled thru it all somehow and I think that is God and my faith/spirituality that does that for me...but also it is how I can tell myself to think about things....My favorite cure for the blues or the bad case of the sads I get when I have PMS...is LAUGHTER....so I know some situations are horrible and dark/spooky...but I do know that laughing at everything stupid and spooky/weird is the best cure for anything...so when I live in total confusion as I most always have the past all my life....I've just giggled and went on...
I've never really let anyone embarrass me about anything...because I just don't care...I make fun of myself all the time and laugh...because life is always way too serious so why not laugh as you are in the middle of a mess or in danger...because when you are a smart girl like me and I rely on God and myself to get myself thru the dark times we all get stuck in from time to time....I just laugh and I don't worry.....because for some reason God gave me sense of humor and I like to think that sense of humor and loving to laugh more than anything is the reason I'm still standing all these years and still laughing at all the BS and stupid idiots in my family!!!....LOL..
I NEED to have funny people in my life and I want people in my life to make me laugh all the time and laugh with me....so when I want that in my life I also know I need all the people in my life that I love to be with me forever and enjoy my life with me....my family(that loves/cares about me) and my real friends(who love/care about me like I do them) and all the other people I haven't even met yet in my life who like to laugh and giggle about stupid crap....so whenever I get all the funny people who laugh at stupid BS with me I think life would be beautiful and wonderful.
I can start laughing about the stupidest stuff sometimes...but I say if it makes me giggle until I cry or pee my pants then I am doing ok...haha!!!....because life is so sad and pitiful that's how life is sometimes...but you have to know that it's gonna pass....so I just think you need laughter all the time to get thru all the sad times or horrible times...because it will pass as long as you have laughter and people who love you and you love them in your life to make you laugh and giggle with you at stupid crap all the time...what else does a girl or boy need in life than that?
anybody can learn to laugh at stupid stuff...the funniest thing is being in town in public and looking at someone across a table and just laughing yourself silly about the stupidest stuff or giggling your self silly when you and somebody know what is so funny and nobody else gets it...that's special to have those"nobody else gets it" moments because that means you are laughing together...god I love that stuff!!!
so anyway,laughing is healthy and good and all things bad go away eventually as long as you keep laughing thru it.
keep laughing I do anyway!
love ya julie
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