low self esteem....

Low self esteem is something many people suffer from, all ages go through this feeling sometime in life....

Many times it is caused by how someone belittles you, makes fun of you, tells you, you are useless, anytime they pick out faults about you, your looks, or anything about you and they tell you, you're stupid or dumb, you're not wealthy enough, you don't matter or count in the world, these people telling you these things can cause low self-esteem....Don't pay any attention to these bullies/snobs! they like to bring others down because they feel better when they break people's hearts....because they're jealous or not happy with their own self.....just laugh at them all when they try to insult you!...I laugh all the time! ;)

Other times low self esteem can be caused by embarrassing situations or when someone has severely hurt you physically, this can be very difficult to get over.....It takes a lot of mental health help, and talking with those you love and can trust about what you went through, they will understand and keep that information quiet...talking to those who you trust and love can help you sometimes feel better about what you went through, along with mental health help.

Bad times, abuse, upsets, and setbacks they can cause low self esteem, and sometimes low self esteem leads to suicide, drug abuse, and severe mental issues, people need to always seek proper mental health care when feeling so low to the ground...these are very serious situations and need to be treated properly.....suicide & drug abuse should NEVER be the answer!.....Seek mental health help always.

Life is tough and a person has to always be tougher to fight back against all the upsets and challenges in life, I know I have had to!....

I think really, low self esteem is generally caused by others who inflict pain with insulting words or terrible upsetting abuse....nasty people once again who cause upsets to others, they need kicked to the curb!!! Forget them!...Those types of people are trash and their opinions and words do not matter....

They say abusive relationships can cause a lot of low self esteem for men & women, people should NEVER let another in a relationship insult them with hatefulness, or belittle them or abuse them, this is all just to try and control your significant other, and it just causes low self esteem...men & women both have suffered this in relationships!...I think that is when I would leave and call it quits.....

Low self esteem can be caused by many abusive things in life, and like I said setbacks that happen when you are so very hopeful for good things and they just don't happen, and that is very upsetting and sad when that happens to someone full of hopes & dreams....but sometimes I think when things fall through over and over again they just aren't meant to be, and we have to just pick up and go on in search of what God has chosen for us about each and every thing in life...so never lose hope and give up!...

NEVER let someone cause you to have low self esteem and never listen to those idiots when they run their mouth off at you to be hurtful or abuse you!....Laugh at them and leave, never to see them ever again....that'll show 'em!

low self esteem can stay with you if you let it control how you are feeling about yourself, and I know many people suffer from that.....so IF it happens to you, just work on getting rid of it and learn to just laugh at all the crap in life, that's what I do all the time!...just laugh about upsets and go on!

julie