Sometimes in life we can get super busy...stressed. angry. sad. depressed and say the most stupid things to those we love and care for...
Most people have said stupid things without thinking before they said them to the person they love/care about and it hurts terribly!
It has happened to me numerous times with friends several years ago and I would cry all the way home because my feelings got hurt....
some people get their feelings hurt more easily than others and it is just how everyone is completely different and unique...
Getting your feelings hurt can last forever and damage/ruin good healthy friendships/relationships that are good for you and it will take them away---just by saying the wrong thing and hurting feelings!
you don't ever want to say something stupid, terrible, degrading, hurtful, disrespectful to those you love/care for because you don't ever want to lose them...
the old saying is "look before you leap" and that would also apply to "think about it before you say something"....or "think about it before you take part in something"
a person has to always remember that when you do not think about things before you take part in them or before you say them, you can have a lot of bad consequences and bad things can happen when you are just saying anything or just taking part in anything.....
someone who truly loves/cares about someone would never make fun of them, harass them, say hurtful things to them, endanger their lives, or make them sad and cry...that's very upsetting and abusive to treat your precious loved ones that way....we must always love and protect them at all times.
so many people are very fortunate to have loved ones in their lives who love them and tell them every day that they love/care for them and are NOT angry, jealous, bitter or hateful with them and that is the way you should live your life to keep your loved ones in your life....
whenever I have had people in my life like that, I just forget them and I kick them out of my life and go on with my life because I do not need to be treated like that or made to cry and be upset because of people with issues/problems....they have had the problem..not me...all I have ever tried to achieve in life is be kind, caring and sweet to everyone...
I call those kind, mean, uncaring, disrespectful people rotten apples----a person always has rotten apples in their life sometimes....haha! just go on and forget them I say.
I think it is always the right thing to think about things before you take part in them, and to always think before you say things to all people...think about how you would feel if someone said those things to you also.
think about the consequences of your actions and your words to your life and others lives.
cause and effect.
one thing makes something else happen.
if you make something good happen---the effect will be good forever and make happiness!
if you cause something bad---the effect is NEVER good...it will be terrible, nasty, dangerous, and most of all sad...not just to your life but to others lives...it will progress and keep causing bad terrible things in lives and the world...and we DO NOT want bad things to happen in life..we MUST keep making good things happen for the world!
bad, sad, dangerous, awful, nasty---are all things that need to leave our lives and our world....
life should always be good for everyone when you are doing the right thing for your life, loved ones, and other people.
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