Many times in life there are people who are left behind by family members for all kinds of reasons....Often these people have no one to turn to ask for advice or distinguish right from wrong...
Throughout my life I have always been asked many questions from others about what they should do in a situation or what choice is the right choice?....What is right and what is wrong? they always ask me...
I think when you know someone needs to be taught about what is right or what is wrong you should always first ask them: " What do you think is the right decision?" and I'd let them tell me what they think they should be choosing....Then I would give my advice on their answer...You know, you always want others to make good right safe decisions and always choose good things, NEVER bad choices!
If you ever have to question a decision you make and you have to ask yourself: " This decision may be dangerous, it may be nasty, it may be very wrong that I am choosing to take part in" THEN you know you should NEVER go with that choice, because it is wrong to begin with when you are questioning it about being dangerous, nasty, stupid, wrong....so always go with the decision that is less stressful, safer, and you never have to question it....You say: "Oh, well it will be OK, there is no worries when I choose this decision/choice."
In life you may find others in your life who you see are taking the wrong bad paths in life and making very wrong stupid decisions.....You may wish to let them know that they are making a bad choice and say: " Maybe you might think of something safer and better...this is a very bad decision."
Teenagers and Children are usually the ones that make stupid bad choices and endanger their lives, so you need to always be there for them when they seek advice and be there for other adults when they seek advice from you and ask your thoughts on an issue or something they want to know how to understand or choose the right decision...
Decision making can be very stressful and often confusing!
Being a good respectful mentor to others and trying to always help others to know the good choices/decisions that are out there to choose from to keep them safe, is always very kind to be helpful to them when they are stressed, confused, upset...and seeking advice and help with decision making....
You can change others lives for the better when giving them advice for the good choices/decisions.
j.
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