Wednesday, October 5, 2016

take good care......

Apple Cinnamon scented Glade, Airwick or off brand this time of year?...I found some....lol....

I think that every time I am setting in the vehicle with the windows rolled down, or stopped at a stop sign, whatever it may be when I am outside, bees or wasps always find me and want to annoy me...they fly in the window at me!!!...I guess I smell like sugar possibly!...lol....Bumble bees, wasps, honey bees, always go right to me...no matter where I am or what I am outdoors working on, they always find me!

thinking about how we all need to show we care about one another and show support for our loved ones more often....When you love and care about someone, you only wish to look out for them, and make very sure they are safe and well, at all times....

Taking good care of your loved ones should always be a top priority in your life, making very sure they make good choices in life is always something we need to care about...

Knowing that when they need help, may be in distress, or may be ill or need immediate attention medically is something we need to ALWAYS care about, even telling them the cold hard truth about their habits when they don't see how dangerous their problems is, ALWAYS tell them!...It is so very easy to lose loved ones to illness, addictions, very bad health choices and showing them you care by telling them it's time to step it up and go seek treatment at the rehabs and seek mental health counseling is a good thing to tell them before you lose them!

A person has to care about their own self, love their own self, BEFORE they could even start to care about, love another, or take care of another...that's just the truth!...

Having someone in your life with addiction is an upset and you always worry over them, cry over them, are stressed over them, so when you love someone don't hurt yourself and stay in bad habits, because while it not only hurts you, it hurts your loved ones to see you waste your life away and seriously endanger your life and theirs, and terribly hurt your body, we're not invincible at all, we are human, and I know many bad times in life can lead to addictions, but people need to let go of the pain they have suffered previously, seek mental health counseling/rehab and let go of the stupid drug addictions, seek treatment and start your life OVER while you can, before you lose it.....

when you have good loved ones who love you and care about you, you have support and you will ALWAYS have them there to be supportive when they know you are serious about seeking treatment, they will say I love you and care about you---- go to rehab and mental health counseling so we can enjoy life together----family, friends, husbands, wives, boyfriends, girlfriends, always show support for your loved ones battling through addiction and mental health issues, it is NOTHING to be ashamed of when you need to seek help and proper treatment!....so go get help, you can start your life over new.....finding good loved ones is always a blessing from above!...you don't want to waste your life and lose them because of addictions....

many times people suffer serious health issues at all ages and sometimes people are addicted to drugs terribly, this endangers their life and is a very serious situation!!!....Nobody needs to be on drugs, I know how serious it is, and how much stress it is for their loved ones, I have had it in my family all over and I know how stressful, upsetting, dangerous drugs can be....stress! sadness.

when you have people who love you and care about you, you should know you have support and you should know you don't need to keep abusing drugs, it only hurts your loved ones, and ruins relationships that are so very precious and you don't want to EVER lose something so many people have trouble finding in life....

taking care of all of our loved ones at all ages is also something we should know is something needs to be tended to, when you have elderly family or friends make it apart of your day to go and see them or ask if they need help with anything, check in on them at all times....they need to find nursing care that works and keep them safe....

when you have friends or family who you know are depressed and suffer mental issues, we need to show support and know it takes time and patience with them to become healthier....checking up on them, and trying to cheer them up is always good...tell them you care about them and you will always be there for them when they need to talk or need help with something....NEVER leave them alone by themselves, it could be dangerous when people are feeling so low and upset.....

AND if you have pets or animals, we need to always take very good care of them, bathe them, feed/water them, shelter them, tell them that you love and care about them also!!!....they're your family!

It may take an hour or two from your busy life everyday to take that extra time to care for loved ones and show your support and care for them, but go ahead and show them you care about them...so many people have setbacks, addictions, upsets, mental health issues, and we all need to know we matter and people love/care for us!.....

call, send letters, send flowers, stop by and greet them, we all should be more supportive, kind, and caring to everyone....

everyone that is apart of your life or will be apart of your life, is there for a reason...always know that, and when they are good people, we know they need to know people love and care about them!

kisses!

j.

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